26

It has not been a month since I went into 26 in June. Lucky me, I've got experienced many common issues which today I acknowledge deeply:

1. Not everything can be bought with money. 

I've been experiencing this 3 times in this early 26. First, baca Tenunan Laraswati Dibakar. Second, an elite offered to pay for something to make the project is fixed on its perspective, meanwhile, this just can't be bought tangibly. People's time, wisdom, and creativity somehow can't always be there while there's an amount of money on the table. Third, by hearing something so common (a given and sincere happiness, yet get the painful thing to be said in return). Well, don’t bite a hand that feeds you.

2. Respect is matters (the most)

Respect everyone, that's it.

3. Trust issues can lead to apathy, and it's somehow appropriate

It's not always good to have an idea of "never trust anyone". But, sometimes it's the ultimate thing to do in order to lower one's expectations, build inner peace, and create a strong shield on risky attitudes towards you.

4. Care to others is crucial, but care for our own self is fundamental

Imagine your body is a tank. After all these times, the tank is leaking. It keeps leaking until you have nothing inside. Having nothing means nothing to be offered. You're an empty bucket. Don't push yourself to keep providing empty containers. Fill your tank with happiness, affection, love, or even food first. if it's done, then you'll be ready to share "you" with others.

5. Men are remarkable at speaking. It's all a lie unless they prove it

I have no idea what God had been done when created this type of gender, but they are undoubtedly astonishing when say something - which sometimes it's all seems reachable in a very short time. Never ever trust it, until they prove it reliably to you.